elilla: [femmes] @elilla@transmom.love

when are they gonna make femgirls

@celesteh @Nocta Brazilian showers always have grounding!

Most buildings, however, don't.

So the shower's grounding wires go nowhere. Like all grounding wires for everything in your house.

I hope you enjoy little shocks from random devices w/metal frames and buying no-break UPSes for all your expensive computer toys ☺️

(there's usually however a relay or other protection that will knock the power itself off if it escapes, so dangerous accidents are rare even in old houses. all you get is a cold shower and having to walk out wet & naked in winter to flick the switch up again; something that may happen often to long-showerers like me.)

(some people just plug the showerhead’s ground wire into the neutral. this is widely considered to be A Bad Move.)

(another fun thing is when the lights and other devices start to flicker whenever you turn your shower on, very horror movie vibes, great for Halloween)

aw my kid's having a trans kid class online and wanted to bring me on cuz i'm trans too and show me off *sob sob sobbb*

The following spells face dysphoria heads-on. They can feel super uncomfortable, and sometimes downright terrifying. Please take care and be sure you can access your support network before trying.

🪞 To flip the gender of the mirror self 🪞

Works best when you have already seen yourself at least once, so you know what it feels like. To be cast when you glance at your reflection and see it as the wrong gender. If you glanced at it by accident, don’t look away. Stop. Look at it. Look at it.

Breath deep, three times.

See the mirrorself as somebody else. Start the spell with a greeting. "Hi, I’m $name, and I’m a $gender_noun" (girl, boy, man, femby etc.) – out loud whenever possible. The boy/enby/etc. in the mirror is another person, telling you that. Do you believe them?

(If you have too much voice dysphoria to speak out aloud, let mirrorself say the following exact words: "This is my voice and it’s a $gender_nouns’ voice, because I’m a $gender_noun".)

Mirrorself is fully confident in their (her, his, faer etc.) gender. They’re showing it to you, like a model at a photoshoot. Don’t look away. Look deep into their eyes. Let them pose. Let them tilt their head, make funny faces, laugh and scowl and get angry. Make angles, gestures, body language symbolic of who you are (girlish, motherly, non-conforming? a kitten, a dilf, monster? pose like one.)

Keep doing this until the gender in the mirror reflects you. Bow or nod or otherwise thank mirrorself for their (his, xir etc.) help.